What Are Your Giving Motives: Reflections on Matthew 6:1-4

Matthew 6:1-4 is a passage that reminds us of the importance of living a life of generosity and compassion. In these verses, Jesus warns us against the dangers of hypocrisy and encourages us to give with a pure heart and a sincere spirit.

When we give with a pure heart and a sincere spirit, without seeking recognition or reward, we are acting out of a sense of compassion and empathy for others. This kind of altruistic behavior has been shown to have a positive impact on our mental health, as it promotes feelings of happiness, fulfillment, and meaning in life. By helping others, we shift our focus away from our own problems and concerns, and this can give us a sense of purpose and perspective that is often missing in our modern, fast-paced world.

Moreover, the act of giving can be a form of self-care, as it allows us to connect with our own values and beliefs, and reaffirm our sense of purpose and identity. When we give to others, we are expressing our own sense of worth and significance, and this can help to counteract feelings of anxiety, depression, and self-doubt.

What is your Motive?

Verse 1 sets the tone for the passage by saying:

"Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of people, to be seen by them. Otherwise, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. 

- Matthew 6:1 (HCSB)

Jesus is calling us to examine our motives for doing good deeds. This is an important challenge for all of us, as it is easy to fall into the trap of seeking recognition and praise from others. When we do good deeds for the wrong reasons, we miss out on the true reward that God has for us. Jesus warns us that if we seek earthly accolades and status, we will have no reward from our Father in heaven.

So, what is your motive for doing good deeds? Is it to gain recognition or praise from others? Is it to enhance your reputation or status in the community? Or is it to serve and honor God, to show compassion and empathy to others, and to live a life of righteousness?

Giving with a Heart of Compassion and Discretion

In verses 2 and 3, Jesus starts by giving us an example of how we should give:

So whenever you give to the poor, don't sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be applauded by people. I assure you: They've got their reward! But when you give to the poor, don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 

- Matthew 6:2-3 (HCSB)

This is a powerful image that reminds us of the dangers of pride and hypocrisy. When we give to others, whether it is money, time, or resources, we should do so with a spirit of generosity and compassion, not with a desire for attention or applause.

Jesus continues in verse 3 with a challenge statement calling us to be discreet and selfless in our giving. We should not be calculating or strategic in our generosity, but instead, we should give freely and without reservation, trusting that God will provide for our needs.

Trusting in God’s Recognition, Not Earthly Praise

so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. 

- Matthew 6:4 (HCSB)

This is a wonderful promise that should fill us with hope and encouragement. When we live a life of generosity and compassion, when we give freely and without seeking recognition or reward, we can trust that God sees our efforts and will reward us in ways that we cannot even imagine.


As we reflect on these verses, we are called to examine our own hearts and motives. Are we giving to others with a pure heart and a sincere spirit, or are we seeking recognition and praise? Are we serving others out of a desire to serve God, or are we doing so out of obligation or duty? These are important questions that we must ask ourselves if we want to live a life of true righteousness.


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